Friday, March 11, 2011
Go Jazz!
Monday, February 28, 2011
It's a Girl!
Monday, February 21, 2011
Family Room Make-Over
Monday, February 14, 2011
Rainbow Connection
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Almost unbelievable!
James had a basketball game..I can never tell if they are winning or losing but it's still fun to watch. He enjoys it and that's what matters most.
It was a fairly good week until Saturday. I was contacted anonymously by an ex-girlfriend of a former husband. She shared a lot of strange information about this former husband..some of it almost unbelievable. I'm in state of shock right now, so much of the information was contradictory to what he seemed to be or what he wanted me to believe and some of it may have put my own health at risk. I know none of this is my fault but it hurts to realize a relationship was all based on lies. The love I felt was real but who was it for? None of it seems real...and maybe this sounds dumb but I wasted a marriage on him...ugghhh. He accused me of not being able to be alone which was one of the driving forces behind the LEMA contract. For me it was to prove him wrong. But he accused me of something he isn't even able to do. I'm still going to do it for me. I need this time more than ever to heal. No other guy will have a chance right now...I've been lied to and betrayed and this has caused me to lose trust in men. On a brighter note, he is out of my life forever and I am free of the lies he told. My bishop helped me see things a little clearer today and as hurt as I am, I need to forgive him.
Sunday, February 6, 2011
Busy busy...
I also wanted to share an epiphany I had this week. I was driving to work one morning and just started crying as I was thinking about how cheated in love I felt. I have loved a couple of men so deeply and felt so cheated because that same love was not felt in return. My thought was I just wanted a man who loves and cares about James and I and will ALWAYS be there. What made me cry was when I realized that I already have that. Heavenly Father is the one man in my life that will never leave, that always loves me no matter what, never judges and truly cares about me and what happens to me and that I'm happy and the list goes on. It's not the same as having an earthly companion that can be here physically, but he's got all the attributes I need to not feel alone. He not only meets but exceeds my needs. As I took the sacrament today, I even thought of how he sacrificed his only son for me. I still long for that earthly companion that feels that way about me, but as I start a new week I feel rejuvinated and ready to go through another week with Heavenly Father on my side.
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Identity Crisis!
Sunday, January 23, 2011
The consequences are....
- The progress you made in the first 2 weeks, highlighting specific benefits
- How you came to violate the 2011 LEMA contract
- Why it is wrong to breach the contract
- How you are going to prevent future violations, with specific emphasis on preventing a future violation with (name withheld) :)
- Do you believe this punishment was appropriate
- What is the appropriate punishment for another violation
I completed the essay and turned it in. Thankfully Clint responded and rewarded me with a night of babysitting his kids. They were very helpful in getting my Christmas decorations put away...yes on the 21st of January I had a Christmas tree up still.
The 21st was also James' 11th birthday. He spent the weekend with his dad and uncle. So what did I do with a whole day and no child? All the things an 11 year old boy doesn't want to do with his mom. I got a manicure and pedicure and went to the movies. James is usually my movie buddy but he prefers action over chick flicks so I saw what I wanted to see. I ate sushi for dinner and came home and watched 2 more movies. No schedule to stick to and it was fabulous. Freedom was once again attained with no men to stress me out or hurt me. So as another week begins I will focus on exercising to release those endorphins that are supposed to make you naturally happy.